There are plenty of people online that are “PUA” otherwise known as pick up artists. These people focus solely on the “how to get the girl.”
While that’s all fine and dandy, what will happen when you are in a relationship with a lovely lady. Are you going to keep playing these little PUA tricks?
You need something solid when it comes to life in general. First thing, if a girl is the center of your life, you are in deep trouble. What do I mean by that? Imagine something very quickly. Think about a girl. She is the center of your life. Your world revolves around her. She leaves you. Your world free falls through the universe.
See what I mean by how dangerous it is to have your world revolve around one girl?
So if you are going to do anything to get your dating life in order is to take care of yourself first and foremost. You need to get some money going in to your bank, be fit and have a cool sense of style.
That stuff is just so you can feel confident with yourself and not feel like you can’t keep up. Don’t be worried about copying other people’s style. Just fine your own and you will attract what is like you.
All right, back to some deep stuff. If there is anything that happens in a relationship which you should take care of is that, you as a man should always be leading the relationship. It is completely OK to ask your beloved her opinion on a matter and have her involved.
However, if you want to keep your woman’s respect you should not be wish-washy. What does that mean? It means that when you ask your woman out to eat, you do not ask her in this form “I don’t know, what do you want to eat?”
Another example of being the man in a relationship is that if you set rules, you better enforce them. Such as if you say that “no phones at the table while eating,” enforce it. You don’t want to set rules just to be walked all over. A woman will lose faster respect for you than the desert dries up in the summer.
When you go out with her, tell her you want to wear something beautiful. When she does dress up, tell her she does look beautiful, grab her by the hand and lead her out the door. That means you will be in front. Now when you go out that door, before you are far into public, give her a little spank just to remind the both of you what will happen later tonight.
This is quite easy to do. Let it come naturally and don’t second guess yourself. When you start doing this enough, you will find how easy it is to do this. A couple more tips to spice it up just to make sure passions will be set ablaze.
Here’s what it will look like.
Let’s say you guys are out in a clothing store. Separate for a little bit. When you see her again, come up behind her and wrap your arm around her neck like you got her in a headlock. The other arm gets wrapped around her waist ultimately grabbing her hand. You get close to her ear, land a hot breathe and whisper “I can’t wait to take your clothes off later, slowly … piece by piece”
Then you can bite her ear or her neck. Whichever one you choose, go for it.
It is for general dating, also for BBW dating. Do you want to make a successful BBW dating? Just have a try.
Well, I hope this helps you out and you improve your relationship life.